Tantra: Expressions and a few links

It has been a busy month for me. I’ve been doing a holiday job to earn a little extra income for a few projects in my life, among them sending my boys who will both graduate next spring from college and high school to Hawaii or some other neat place they’ll like together.  That job involves alot of typing, so I’ve been having to limit my posting here. That’s been frustrating to me because I love to write.

I have been moving further along about my emotions about M no longer being my partner. We are very slowly trying to establish a friendship with each other. Its not easy for me sometimes because my feelings have not changed for him at all….but I’m feeling ready for another relationship…and I’ve found the emotional connection with my husband again that I’ve missed for so very long….and that too is building in a good, strong and incremental way.

I have met someone I enjoy talking to and am seriously considering how good it would be for me to explore some under developed and little used aspects of my sexuality and personality. I think I am going to embark on a sexual relationship as a Dominant for the first time in my life. I’ve been a leader in many aspects of my life, including my marriage, but I’ve never had a purely dominant sexual relationship.

I have always found that each time I expand who I am as a sexual being, my entire personality recharges and I discover new aspects of strength, creativity and maturity as a result.

That used to mystify me…about why that might happen. Now I understand that sexuality is truly an expression of the soul. I think the soul is really happiness and joy. I think therefore that the sexuality is an expression of who what we love. The more we allow ourselves a soulful expression of all aspects of ourselves, the more we will discover our own beauty and power.

We gather wisdom from that…peace too.

I wonder…

What did you do today to express your soulful sensuality? 

On another note, I am pleased to see that Pam has recently put up a post on Tantra again. I’ve missed her writing very much and wanted you to see that latest post if you haven’t already. For me, her posts and mine are a part of the library of resources I wish to have here about Tantra and Tantric living. This latest is a good post. I hope you’ll read it.

What Tantra Is and What It Isn’t

Here’s a few other links that are generally informative on sexuality:

I found a post on Vanessa Cane’s blog. She includes a link from that post to a very good article about female ejaculation. I learned a great deal reading it…and I have the plumbing it discusses….so I highly recommend the link and Vanessa’s post has some interesting points to make as well.

Here’s some helpful hints for men about how to please women.

And here’s some Tantra links. This one is a simple practice to focus on the pleasure of the skin….Its very effective and a technique that I’ve discussed before, but this explains it better than I did, I think.

And this last one is for the men. Its a very specific technique to help put off ejaculation so that sex may be prolonged.